For the director of music. Of David. A psalm.
1 O God, whom I praise,
do not remain silent,
2 for wicked and deceitful men
have opened their mouths against me;
they have spoken against me with lying tongues.
3 With words of hatred they surround me;
they attack me without cause.
4 In return for my friendship they accuse me,
but I am a man of prayer.
5 They repay me evil for good,
and hatred for my friendship.
6 Appoint an evil man to oppose him;
let an accuser stand at his right hand.
7 When he is tried, let him be found guilty,
and may his prayers condemn him.
8 May his days be few;
may another take his place of leadership.
9 May his children be fatherless
and his wife a widow.
10 May his children be wandering beggars;
may they be driven from their ruined homes.
11 May a creditor seize all he has;
may strangers plunder the fruits of his labor.
12 May no one extend kindness to him
or take pity on his fatherless children.
13 May his descendants be cut off,
their names blotted out from the next generation.
14 May the iniquity of his fathers be remembered before the LORD;
may the sin of his mother never be blotted out.
15 May their sins always remain before the LORD,
that he may cut off the memory of them from the earth.
16 For he never thought of doing a kindness,
but hounded to death the poor
and the needy and the brokenhearted.
17 He loved to pronounce a curse—
may it come on him;
he found no pleasure in blessing—
may it be far from him.
18 He wore cursing as his garment;
it entered into his body like water,
into his bones like oil.
19 May it be like a cloak wrapped about him,
like a belt tied forever around him.
20 May this be the LORD's payment to my accusers,
to those who speak evil of me.
21 But you, O Sovereign LORD,
deal well with me for your name's sake;
out of the goodness of your love, deliver me.
22 For I am poor and needy,
and my heart is wounded within me.
23 I fade away like an evening shadow;
I am shaken off like a locust.
24 My knees give way from fasting;
my body is thin and gaunt.
25 I am an object of scorn to my accusers;
when they see me, they shake their heads.
26 Help me, O LORD my God;
save me in accordance with your love.
27 Let them know that it is your hand,
that you, O LORD, have done it.
28 They may curse, but you will bless;
when they attack they will be put to shame,
but your servant will rejoice.
29 My accusers will be clothed with disgrace
and wrapped in shame as in a cloak.
30 With my mouth I will greatly extol the LORD;
in the great throng I will praise him.
31 For he stands at the right hand of the needy one,
to save his life from those who condemn him.

The psalmist must have been
grossly mistreated. He called upon the Lord's judgement on those who accused Him in
Psalm 109.
Today I had a little taste of what it means to be
treated unpleasantly at the workplace. It's not really that serious, but I felt that the other party was
not talking in a nice tone (coupled with
sarcastic remarks). I felt really
irritated at that point, but thank God
I managed to held on to my temper and walked away.
There's always this tendency for us to
hit back at those who hurt us. But I think the psalmist's response is something we should learn.
The principle is to commit the matter to God, and let Him take charge. It wasn't easy, but I kind of succeeded today.
Upon walking away, I prayed and found peace in the Lord. I think that's the best thing that could have happened in this situation. Lord, I pray that I would always choose to react the way I did today. To trust You with every unfair situation. Psalm 109:31 "For he stands at the right hand of the needy one, to save his life from those who condemn him."Things to ponder1. What is 1 thing that God impressed upon you today, with regards to the way you handle conflicts?
2. How can you apply it into your daily life?
3. Pray and ask God to make it possible. It's only by His grace.